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You can succeed as a writer.
The lure of the writing life
I'll bet you want to be a writer.  Or, you want to be a successful, wealthy author.  You probably have a positive goal, and I'm sure you dream about the writing life. But what did people say to you when you indicated that you wanted to be a writer?

My mother first asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up when I was five or six. I was ignorant, not arrogant. "A writer," I said, thinking about the beautiful stories  I listened to and wrote at school.

"That's sweet. But, I mean, what do you want to do for work?"

"Umm, a fireman?" I said, puzzled. What was wrong with wanting to be a writer?

What is wrong with being a writer?
The answer, nothing is wrong with your goal, but you have selected a challenging one and must ask yourself how you are going to publish. While some may criticize my mother for not being more encouraging, I understand now why she failed to detect that I was serious.

Nowadays, anyone who wishes to combat lies and ignorance and to write the truth must overcome at least five difficulties. He must have the courage to write the truth when truth is everywhere opposed; the keenness to recognize it, although it is everywhere concealed; the skill to manipulate it as a weapon; the judgment to select those in whose hands it will be effective; and the cunning to spread the truth among such persons. 
Bertolt Brecht

The problem and solution both lie in the power of our dreams. Frequently, writers are dreamers rather than entrepreneurs, but success in writing usually involves sharp business skills. Our dreams can create illusions about the writing life, but grounding ourselves in the reality behind the myths empowers us.

Writing myths that hinder your path to success

Consider these myths that we often believe unconsciously. Each myth has a link to some of the remedies.

1.  Writing is easy, and everyone will enjoy my work.
You might believe this subconsciously because writing always seems easy and many people have admired your skills. Reality instructs us that writing skills are relative, and we are probably neither the best nor the worst. You must be confident in your writing, but also in your ability to improve. All the best writers practice and become better over time.

2.  Writers make so much money.
You notice the ones who make a lot of money because they are famous. The trap lies in believing that they arrived at their position with out pain, work, or cost. Believing that writing is easy for you may lead to the idea that wealthy writers have acquired their position with ease. In most cases, success comes with hard work and persistence.

3.  So much money is left to be made.
If you look on the book shelves or the internet and assume that all these writers make important money, you are wrong. I would guess that a majority of writers struggle to pay the bills, and many write for free. The idea is that writing for free promotes your name and leads, overtime, to success. This is right thinking, but in the marketplace, the quantity of writers definitely exceeds the amount of money available. Knowing this will motivate you to be generous with your writing and to learn endurance.

4.  Google and advertisers will make money easy.
Google and other advertisers usually exploit writers. We provide free advertising and promotion for them 99% of the time because we are only paid if people click or purchase. The rest of the time, you advertise for free

5.  Few people enjoy writing.
Perhaps you know that writing is difficult and assume that most people will not want to do it. You would be wrong Do a quick search for blogs, novels, writing, articles, etc. You'll find that thousands write, and much competition is out battles for positions.

6.  No one is writing about my brilliant topic idea.
Again, search your topic, and you will probably find that many are writing about it. Finding a niche topic, or one that is popular, but few people write about, requires work, effort, and searching.

7.  Writing will fulfill all my needs.
You may find that while you enjoy writing, the work involved is not worth it for you because writing only fills a few of your many needs. Many of the best writers maintain another job and write on the side. This is a great approach, as you work to make success develop.

8.  Others will facilitate my needs and dreams.
You must work to locate and nurture your audience, and there are always those who will reject it. You can fight this by focusing on your support circles, learning from your critics, and disregarding those who are ignorant.

9.  A good writer requires no business skills.
Actually, entrepreneurial skills will lead a writer to success faster than great writing. If you are like me, this means that you have to acquire new skills to make yourself standout and direct you toward success.
If you do not breathe through writing, if you do not cry out in writing, or sing in writing, then don't write, because our culture has no use for it. 
Anais Nin 

I hope you find these ideas helpful in countering the myths that might hold you back as a writer. And, remember that the best writers earn their success by enduring longer and working harder than the weak. You can do it if you have the right frame of mind.

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Comments

12/04/2012 2:15pm

Darin,
The words you speak are the absolute truth. There is no instant fame or easy money in any we do especially writing. The perseverance and persistence required are endless. Our screens are blank everyday and we work our asses off to fill them because we have to express ourselves creatively. We search for readers but more so we search for fans. The world of publishing is at our fingertips but our books lie at the bottom of huge data bases like needles in a haystack--still we try to find our way and write. Thanks for telling it like it really is. Susan

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Susan,

Thank you so much for reading and taking the time to comment. I thought that there may be others out there who have experienced suffering because of dreams and illusions, and I am happy that you found the post useful.

It's so true that we dream of a massive fan base when the bottom of the dumpster awaits most of what we write. You have courage and power because you fight your way through it, and I hope you continue to do so. You are great!

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12/04/2012 9:19pm

This is definitely why I could never be a professional writer...well, assuming I even had the talent to begin with. I would like to write a story/novel someday, but I'm treating that as somewhat of a hobby, something I'll put a little time into here and there, and maybe many years down the line, something will come of it. I won't be quitting my day job, however. =)

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12/04/2012 9:29pm

You are certainly skilled in writing comments, and I always enjoy receiving them, Neel. Did you notice the new Top Participant Board? You are right up there, and I do really enjoy talking with you.

Writing is certainly challenging, but you have the right approach in keeping a day job and having writing as a hobby. Not that you aren't talented, but it's just so difficult to survive. One thing I don't mention in the article is that usually the experience of another career feeds your writing. So many talented writers have made a lot of money by interweaving career and writing - law, medicine, psychology, etc. Keep your goal in mind, Neel, and treat it seriously even though it's a side project. Completing a book is fulfilling even if you don't sell a million copies.

Thanks again for visiting and taking the extra time to comment.

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12/04/2012 9:39pm

You make some valid points. Writing is like anything else. The people who get anywhere are the ones that worked hard to make it happen.

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12/04/2012 9:44pm

You are right, Big D. Writing is like most other occupations that have value: practice and training are required for success. With writing, remembering that is tricky because most everyone is capable of writing. However, being a professional at something is not the same as knowing how to do something. For example, I know the law, but I would not ever presume myself a writer. All of us however, can claim the title of writer.

If one is to be a professional in any field, he or she should be prepared to put in years of practice, study, and preparation, even if it does not come through formal schooling.

Thank you for your comment and for visiting here. You are great!

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12/05/2012 6:41am

I agree 100% with everything you said. It was nice to have it all packaged in one, well-written post. Thank you.

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01/01/2013 5:18am

June,

Thanks so much for the comment. Because of discouragements of my own, I thought it was important to get the info. out there, not to discourage, but to establish a sense of reality.

Darin.

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12/16/2012 1:26pm

#4 - doesn't Google have pay-per-click and pay-per-thousand ads? You're right that it's "free" on a case-by-case level most of the time, but people do click, so it somewhat evens out. Like how a department store gives you "free" air conditioning and lighting. You might not pay for it every time, but eventually people do.

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01/01/2013 5:24am

Jeremy,

You are absolutely right. I was just observing a remarkable shift from traditional advertising to online advertising. In traditional advertising, you had to pay for any exposure at all. Now, companies can have their banners everywhere without technically spending a sent. This works as an advantage to bloggers, google, and advertisers in many ways. Bloggers at least have an opportunity to earn ad. revenue.

However, it also comes at the expense of bloggers who are forced to provide free publicity in order to make meager advertising gains.

What do you think Jeremy?

Darin

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12/21/2012 7:19am

Darin, thanks for those priceless riding tips although it seems my feet are still on the ground. Someday though, I'll make it gallop!

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01/01/2013 5:26am

Hey, Uma,

I'm in the same boat, and we just have to have hope that our persistence will pay off. Best of luck to you. You can do it!

Darin

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01/21/2013 1:17pm

Good post, and I think these are things that aspiring writers need to be aware of. Becoming any type of professional writer is really more of a calling than anything. It's a lot of hard work, and not always glamorous, but it can be very worth it.

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