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Why Do People Blog? The Benefits of Blogging
"While the blogging scene has developed over the last decade, the benefits of blogging are still plentiful. Here's a list of reasons why people blog and how blogging can benefit your personal or professional life."
Everyone can blog and will benefit from the experience in many ways, in addition to those discussed here. But, if you think about starting a blog, you will not begin blogging unless you have a passion for writing, teaching, communication, or ideas.
Some of the most powerful motivators include are psychological, sociological, or financial. You benefit from blogging by:
Of course you probably won't start out at a professional level, but you will get become highly skilled through experience, persistence, and practice. You can practice and hone your skills on any number of free website platforms.
I confess that I am biased towards the higher level motives, especially passion. If you have a passion for what you do, the potential for other rewards will present themselves. Things will work out if you have passion, the source of motivation, enjoyment, value, and a powerful blog that speaks to the world.
I intentionally manipulated the original order to reflect my own values in blogging. Blogging is so emotionally and intellectually rewarding, but it is difficult to make money with blogging alone.
You should never enter blogging with the idea that there is easy money. It can be profitable, but requires considerable research, work, entrepreneurial skills, and a bottomless ambition.
On the other hand, every business should have a blog, hiring a blogger if you don't have the time or inclination to write. Blogging has become an essential part of the infrastructure of every business.
And, don't just share news and blog about your business. Instead, provide help and answers to the community. Allow your friendly assistance and ample knowledge to drive revenue. It will happen.
What Do You Think?
Are you thinking of starting a blog? Why? If you already blog, what drives you to continue?
How to Silence Your Irrationally Harsh Inner Critic
The evil "I" in self-talk
Mines the common character flaw that defeats many potentially successful innovators: Our “Harsh Inner Critic[s].” Choi tries to understand why this negative inner voice is so prevalent in modern society. She searches for a plan to attack the loud inner voices hurting people.
Notes that Dr. Ethan Kross, a credible research psychologist, emphasizes the consequences of negative mental talk. The negativity crushes people, but Kross also points out that we can also have positive mental talk to combat the negative.
The way you silently speak to yourself in your head seriously affects the outcomes of your projects and success. Your self-talk also influences your happiness and self-concept.
The 3 step path out of the negative mind
Avoid speaking in the first person
Many of you already know that you have a very harsh inner critic that picks apart and tears down all of your confidence. We know this, but we are uncertain how to change. Sadly, the answer is easy but not well known.
Most people speak to themselves in the first person: “I hate it when I …” or “I understand that she is correct, I am a …” The first person pronouns are part of the negativity problem because you are labeling yourself in a personal way. In fact, Choi claims that changing your pronouns helps reinforce positive thoughts too.
Instead, of first person pronouns, use second and third person pronouns. “Why are you so lazy?” not “Why am I so lazy?” This is a focused shift in pronoun power, and puts you in a position to rescue control of your thinking. All you have to do is reinforce your language, training your brain.
So, keep practicing this technique because when you transcend “me,” “I,” and “myself,” you get out of your own head and gain mental distance from your negative thoughts. You separate yourself from personal labels and descriptions.
Kross found evidence of the power in avoiding the use of "I" when he researched public speaking. He paid attention closely to how people introduced themselves prior to speaking.
He discovered that those who used “I” to introduce themselves were less calm, controlled, and powerful than those who used second or third person. Instead of “I work in education,” I would begin “Darin L. Hammond works in education.” Sound awkward?
Kross and Choi claim the results are noticeable.
Create exercises that help you in self-distancing
You can use events that pop up every day to create practice sessions. You experience daily moments when you are at risk of insecurity, self-doubt, and a shattered self-esteem, especially at the job, social situations, and personal experiences. You can use these small events to design practices.
The technique you are acquiring is called self-distancing, and in the beginning it's difficult to see the progress which comes in small bits. The habitual change in your self-language requires much thought and practice.
In other words, it won't be as easy as it sounds. But you will find your wiser self as the new language embeds itself in your mental talk. Getting outside your normal mind, using distancing practices, will empower you to be your wiser, more secure self. You will see yourself more objectively and less critically.
The practice you create is essential and must be reinforced.
For example, are you going to ask for a big raise? Practice the whole interview in the mirror. Be careful to control your mental talk, avoiding personal pronouns and negative words. Distance yourself from the past and future, focusing on the situation and what you are thinking in the present.
Your mind becomes a wise companion and supporter as you distance yourself, becoming your champion rather than your opponent. Practice an interview with a colleague live or in front of the mirror.
Imagine the powerful mental resource of positive, non-first person self-talk as you are being interviewed. Choose “you are going to succeed in this interview” over “I am going to succeed in this interview.” You can do this!
Avoid the rut of thinking negatively in the present moment. Don’t say, “You are feeling anxiety,” but “You can do this. You are under control. You are calm."
Kross’s studies also revealed that referring to yourself in the third person is even more powerful. Rather than “You have this under control,” use your name “Darin, you are under control. You can do this Darin!"
Review daily how you are progressing
After your practice sessions, check in with yourself to see how “you” are coming and what you can change. Evaluate yourself honestly but not in a critical way. Maintain the distance.
This important "reflective" step in the process ensures that you will continue to learn and progress. A new you will be emerging.
Darin's notes: This is a form of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy CBT although the article didn't use the term. CBT operates on the assumption that wrong thinking is the source of most typical mental disorders, and retraining the brain can cure the patient of mental issues and negative feelings.
I must say that I am not fond of CBT. I've attempted the practices for depression and chronic anxiety.
I can't seem to trick my brain to think new thoughts when I know in the back of my mind that my old thoughts are true. I continue to wrestle with these issues.
I am also not convinced with the anecdotal evidence of Kross and Choi.
But, this plan seems small enough that I think I will give it a try. I'll keep you posted.
I also like the fact that the origin of the problem and solution both seem simple and plausible. Give it a try with me? Let me know in the comments.
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The Psychology of Writing and the Cognitive Science of the Perfect Daily Routine
Language provided our first real portal into the human mind through Noam Chomsky's linguistic work in the late 1950s and beyond, writing becoming a valuable resource for glimpsing the workings of the brain.
BrainPickings is a wonderful website where Maria Papova explores thinking and learning. She reviews books, new and old, in search of mental feasts for her readers. I love the site, especially when she explores reading, writing, and creativity.
Writing rituals, or cognitive cueing, prepares an individual's mind for activity and creativity. Rituals, cues, and symbols are the things you do right before you write.
The brain encodes the practices and environment that precedes the creative activity, and the rituals are preserved in neural patterns, automatically triggering the mind to enter the creative flow.
Flow is when you are so intensely in the creative moment, that the words come with ease and you cannot be distracted by anything. You cannot help but write.
So, flow in writing is more easily achieved each time the rituals are practiced, further encoding the brain with permanent triggers. The customary environment, timing, and physical context of writing becomes a part of the rituals that induce flow, the environment triggering specific types of mental activity.
Beyond creativity and writing, rituals are important for triggering mental action throughout the day: waking up, preparing for the day, getting ready for sleep.
Rituals, symbols, times, and other cues help the brain enter the zone where knowledge and creativity can be retrieved from long term memory, for access in the present.
Priming your creative pump before you draw water leads to increased innovation and productivity.
I have a specific time, place, and position for writing sessions, and I avoid carelessly wandering into challenging mental activity. I need all the help I can get from cues like preparing my desk, clearing my computer desktop of unwanted open programs, and making sure my water is handy.
I eat a bit of sugar (fruit or candy because my brain likes it) and drink water. I even go to the restroom before I start so that my body will not become an intrusion. I get my tunes playing.
What are your rituals? Do you have things that you do before you write that you weren't even aware of previously?
If you need some rituals, I right about them in depth here. You can also Google "writing rituals" for new ideas.
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